You can say something like, "I want to ask you about something." Or, if you're getting the sense he's showing his interest, you can bring it up. It's about his unwanted interest, since I'm getting the impression that the OP only wants to be friends with him. This doesn't have anything to do with being asexual. You should definitely make it clear that you aren't interested in him if you're going to want to remain friends (Though the first guy, once again, wouldn't accept that and the last time we spoked requested that he be the first person I tell when I was ready to start dating). The first guy I talked about said that I was giving mixed signals by smiling at him and I smile at everyone. As for the mixed signals, it still depends on the guy. If he's interested, and then if he asks you out and you say that you're not interested, he'll have to accept that in order for you to remain friends. Unfortunately I don't have an answer for you on how to stay just friends because it depends on the person. I had another friend who was interested in me though, and after I turned him down we went on just being friends and have been for the past two years. I should probably stop talking with him, but I always feel really bad when I consider it because we were pretty good friends before all this started. Even though he didn't ask me out he kept asking question like what I liked in men and which celebrities I had crushes on, eventually trying to guilt me into dating him by telling me I'd made him fall in love with me. I don't talk to him much anymore, and I definitely never start conversations with him because they get really awkward for me. I tried returning it and told him I didn't feel the same way, he wouldn't accept it back and insisted I keep it, once again wanting to remain friends. He bought me an expensive gift and asked if he'd changed my mind. I thought it was over, until a few months later. The guy eventually asked me out, and I turned him down, we remained friends.
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